A good friend is getting married in a few months, and I spent the afternoon today at her bridal shower. I know both halves of this couple, and I've met their friends and his parents, but today I got to meet the extended family.
Now I'm the guest at any party who will undoubtedly make friends with the gay guys and anyone in any sort of religious order. I'm not sure why this is the case. I've destroyed set-up opportunities with this behavior. The bride-to-be is still annoyed that I spent one party talking to her gay friends and totally ignoring the guy she thought would be perfect for a set up.
Since it was a wedding shower it was a female only event, no guys were present. But I struck gold with the religious. The groom's family is very large, and very Irish. And his aunt, a nun with the Dominican order, was a blast. And so were her four friends from her community - women who have been close with the family for decades. I ended up sitting next to them for a good portion of the afternoon, and we had a surprising amount in common. They knew some of the nuns and priests at my church; one of them had worked near where I went to college; the list went on for awhile.
And, as the conversation usually does at events like these, we eventually got to talking about my relationships. One asked if I was married. When I replied no, she asked if "there was anyone special in my life," and then commiserated with me when I mentioned the perils of dating in this city.
We were wrapping up our conversation as I was leaving, and this nun and her friends bade their goodbyes. They said they would look for me at the wedding, and they said they would pray for me. In my quest to find a date. A few extra intercessions would go unnoticed, they said, and you never know how it might help me.
I briefly wondered if I should ask them to pray for something else instead - world peace, perhaps? An end to hunger and violence? The repose of my dad's soul?
But I quickly changed my mind. I told them a dozen girlfriends of mine would also appreciate their prayers. And I've now got half a community of Dominican Sisters from Mission San Jose on my case. Divine intervention is now really possible.